Self Love Revolution is a place where you get to learn to love yourself.

Whether you are new to the journey of personal growth and development or you’ve been in the arena for decades, this place will help you deepen your self-worth, increase your confidence, find your purpose, and bring that deep inner peace your soul is longing for.

Self-love revolution is built upon a solid foundation of four core values; 

Unconditional Positive Regard:

All beings are welcome here regardless of race, gender, sexual orientation, socio-economic status, or age. All are welcome. All are worthy of healing. There is something for everyone here.

Growth:

Self Love Revolution wouldn’t be here if it weren’t for growth. Personal growth and development is where the crazy, chaotic mess that life can be gets sorted out. One of the most common desires people have when they decide to be a self-love rebel is to find their purpose. Finding the treasures buried in the messiness of life is the path to purpose. Every being has a sacred message waiting to be shared.

Your mess becomes your message!

Health:

Being a Self Love Rebel is more than following the latest trends and bio-hacks. It is diving into each of the four areas of health - Mental, Physical, Emotional, and Spiritual. Health in each of these areas is critical for your solid foundation. Humans are so intricately connected to each of these areas that if one area has been neglected, the whole unit will ultimately suffer. Each of these powerful areas is brought into the space for healing.

Connection:

Humans are wired for connection.

Loneliness is now linked to heart disease. That alone shows how important human connection is.

There is power in being witnessed. There is power in realizing no one is alone. The healing that happens when humans are connected healthily is immeasurable.

The Self Love Revolution is a place for connection and community.

Diving deep into oneself takes courage, dedication, and discipline. It can and will get uncomfortable.

Here, at Self Love Revolution, no one faces these challenges alone. 

These values uphold the dedication and devotion to being the best, most supportive place for all things related to self-love and the deepening of a person’s relationship to themself.

The Self Love Revolution has been a project in the making for over 25 years.

What began as one woman’s promise to do whatever she could with the hope her children would have higher self-esteem than she did at 16, so they would make better choices in life, she did, has become her lifelong purpose to make, at least her corner of the world, a better place.

Meet the founder and CEO of The Self Love Revolution,

Lily Amarais.

What IS the Self-Love Revolution?

People hold back from building self-confidence because they’ve never felt how natural it can be. Let me tell you something: everyone—and I mean everyone—can grow an unshakable belief in themselves. No exceptions.

I’m here to remind you who you really are—without all the outside voices dragging you down into despair, loneliness, and low self-esteem.

Your past? Not your fault. Not one bit.

Those beliefs and behaviors that have kept you small? They were made for survival. They were designed to protect you, to keep you alive. Even if it meant shrinking so much you forgot you even existed.

How do I know this so confidently?

Because I’ve lived it. I’ve been the person who thought she didn’t matter. Who believed she had nothing of value to offer. Who thought the scraps of attention she got were a gift. I grew up believing I wasn’t worthy.

I came from a home full of psychological abuse—a place that taught people-pleasing, self-loathing, and hiding as the only way to survive.

I started climbing out at 19. Slowly. Relentlessly. With every year, more serious. And when my first child was born in 2001, I made a promise: I would do everything in my power to give them higher self-esteem than I had at 16, to make sure they could make better choices. I didn’t know it then, but the only way to keep that promise was to live it myself.

Thank you for reading this far. 

Maybe as you read these words, you’re feeling something flicker inside you—hope. Wondering if this could actually be possible. If it could be true for you.

Here’s why I know it can be:

I have been trained and certified in:

• Clinical Hypnotherapy

• Basic, Master & Teacher Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP)

• additional training in NLP: PTSD & Trauma, Addictions, Sports Psychology, Coaching

• Master/Teacher Usui Reiki

• Master Level Violet Flame Reiki

• Level 1 Holy Fire Reiki

• BodyTalk

• Life Skills Coaching (per ICF requirements)

These aren’t just letters after my name. These are tools I’ve used—along with my lived experience—to guide people like you with understanding, compassion, and unshakable belief. My job is simple: to help you reconnect with yourself, to give yourself the care and love you’ve always deserved, and to strengthen the most important relationship you’ll ever have:

The relationship with yourself.

This work might feel scary. I won’t sugarcoat it.

I get it. I’ve been there.

Here’s the truth: Fear passes. Regret doesn’t.

You’ve made it this far—let’s see what’s possible together.

It’s an honor to walk with you on this journey.

With love, belief, and a little fire,

Lily A.

Hi!
My name is Lily.

Thank you for being here!

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